Wednesday, August 4, 2010

The Scentsy business is picking up momentum while I am registering my daughter for high school, learning my new role as PTA President, learning how to be a soccer coach and supporting my husband in his business ventures and "real job" while keeping the house running smoothly and making healthy meals. I know we have all had our moments of whining about the thankless job we have as WAHMs but at the same time I have to remind myself of how it used to be...

I used to get up in the morning and get ready for work while "keeping Will busy" with TV or something while I put on a little make-up and put on the lovely khakis or black pants (depending on retailer) and shirt emblazoned with either a Circuit City or a Blockbuster logo. I then scooped him up tossed him in the car and drove him to his babysitter where I would drop him off at around 8:20a. I would then begin my morning commute. At it's worst I was driving over an hour through the busiest part of the city out west while I lived as far on the east side of the city as I could be and still be considered a suburb. I would work until between 5 or 6p and then actually leave between 5:30 and 6:30p. This would put me home between 6:30p and 7:30p. Many nights I would stop at the store and pick up something to eat and that would extend it even further. We ate out so much I am ashamed. I had, on average, about 4 hours a day with my children and I wasn't very pleasant for probably an hour or two of it since that time was spent rushing and being frustrated. I cry about the time I lost there in pursuit of the "American Dream" but then I look forward again and am grateful for what I have been blessed with...



A great, supportive husband who agrees we should keep family first...great kids who make it a pleasure to be a mom. I am truly blessed, owning my Scentsy business is another aspect of my personal dreams. A way for me to carve out a little something for me, for my ego, for my checking account...for me.

Monday, August 2, 2010

Maybe I Will Get a Routine Someday....

As it turns out we are not only about to be soccer parents but we are now soccer coaches.  I don't understand what happened to my peaceful quiet existence.  Savoring every moment of staying home with my children.  Taking time for myself at the gym.  I am not saying I am no longer doing these things as I was afraid would happen but actually my ability to do both seems to have improved.  I might be busy all day and work long hours as PTA president, chauffer, Scentsy Consultant, Mom (not to mention friend, sister, daughter, wife) and still be able to be in the moment when my son comes up to cuddle me in the evening and my teenager comes in to complain about how embarrassing her step-dad's socks are.  Throughout my journey I have been trying to find this and hold onto it thinking I need to cling to it and never let it go but the truth is if I focus on living it then it expands and rewards me with more and more.  I know I am blessed with gifts and I am fortunate enough to be able to pursue them right now.  Thanks to my Scentsy business and my supportive husband!  Thanks, Chris, for believing in me yet again!


To start your own business is the first step toward your financial freedom.  Without control of your own income it is harder to fulfill your family's dreams...
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                                                                    - Theodore Roosevelt

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